Texas Motivation Speaker - Chuck Gallagher speaks on "Saving A Life! One Choice At A Time..."

Being stuck in traffic really stinks at times and this morning was no exception. I had just heard the radio play the commercial that I had made for a local company and recall the up coming news tickler. Planning to turn my radio off or switch to satellite radio, I heard something that peaked my interest - so I left it on that station just a bit longer.

The announcer, returning from a commercial break, began to share a story that so touched me, I elected to include it in my presentations - as it spoke clearly and innocently to the focus of every presentation I make - that being - Every Choice Has A Consequence.

It seems that a young man - actually better put a school kid - in the sixth grade was being acknowledged as the citizen of the week by this station in Dallas, TX. Now, Dallas isn't small...so for a school kid to be the citizen of the week, well I just had to hear the story.

Seems that one fine morning the kids had gathered at lunch, just visiting with each other, when one of his buddies got choked on an orange slice. Now, for any of us who have been choked...one thing you can't do is ask for help - kinda hard when you can't breathe. When the kids noticed what was happening most of them gathered around just looking in disbelief. You can imagine the scene - one kid choking to death - as others gathered and watched.

But not our citizen of the week. He, without giving it a thought, jumped into the middle of the group, placed his arms around his buddy and did the Heimlich maneuver dislodging the orange slice and rescuing the choking victim. He seemed to think nothing of it - but I'm sure the kid he saved has a much different feel for the whole experience.

Faced with mounding publicity, this young man seemed to take it in stride. Of course his mother was beaming with pride as her son was recognized for his heroic action. The reported asked, "Just how did you learn how to do the Heimlich?" Without hesitation the boy answered, "Why watching the movies - of course!" Taken back his mother leaned over and asked, "What movie, sweetie?" With an almost indignant tone, he replied, "Mom...Mrs. Doubtfire! Don't you remember?"

The news anchor laughed and for once I enjoyed hearing something that created hope - good news on the radio.

Just today another story was reported out of Jacksonville, Florida. http://www.news4jax.com/news/14652643/detail.html

This story was similar in content and in the feel good human interest side of the news. It's wonderful to talk about those choices in life that make a profound "life and death" difference. What makes them so interesting to me...is that neither of those two kids woke up, got dressed for school, and on the way out the door told their parents, "You know I think I'll save someone today."

When others stepped back and refused to take action, these two people stepped forward and made choices - unanticipated choices - that saved lives.

That happened to me back in 1990 - I mean someone then entered my life quite unexpectedly and made a profound statement that was life changing. He said, as I was experiencing my "Dark night of the Soul," - "You made a mistake, but You are not that Mistake! The choices you make next will define who you really are and the legacy you will leave for your children." As I considered suicide that night, he, in a few simple words, made the choice to stick with me and help me clear away the fog and see clearly who I could become for the first time in a long time.

Today, as a Texas Motivational Speaker, I speak to groups nationwide about choices and consequences. These two youthful examples show the power that one choice can have - saving a life. What choices have you made that have made a difference to you or other peoples lives?

For information on presentations on the Power of One visit my web site: http://www.chuckgallagher.com

Any comments?

Texas Motivational Speaker - Chuck Gallagher - signing off...

Dumb and Dumber - Choices and Consequences from Prison

So let me get this straight, Mr. Van DeLaughter was being held at the Allred Unit of the Texas Department of Criminal Justice in Iowa Park on five counts of theft, aggravated robbery and attempted aggravated kidnapping. Not a good place to be and not looking good for the home team home boy.

Hum…sitting there…thinking, “what should I do to get myself out of this mess?” O.K., I can buy that, it would be reasonable for anyone to try to better themselves - improve their lives - turn things around, if you will, and get a “get out of jail” card. I left out “free” cause, it takes some effort to get into jail and getting out certainly isn’t free.

“What to do…what to do,” he must have thought. “Ah. I think I’ll write a letter!” And write a letter he did. Now here’s where the story takes an unexpected twist.

U.S. Attorney Richard B. Roper, of the Northern District of Texas said, Alan Van DeLaughter, 36, was found guilty of mailing threats to damage or destroy property and another count of mailing threatening communication. A federal jury in Amarillo convicted Roper, a prison inmate, who made threats to a judge and the editor of the Dallas Morning News.

Every choice has a consequence. That is a message I deliver frequently as a Texas motivational speaker. But I must admit that most of time my audience is a bit (well O.K. a lot) brighter than Mr. Van DeLaughter. I would almost say that if there were to be a remake of the movie, “Dumb and Dumber” he might be a candidate for a part. Oops…I don’t think he’d be young enough considering the time he’ll have to spend in prison for that stunt.

For more information on the story from Amarillo see http://www.amarillo.com/stories/082207/new_8287078.shtml

Sentenced to 20 years (240 months) without parole, I guess Mr. Van DeLaughter made his point and sealed his fate.

I realize that I’ve been taking this light heartedly, but there might just be a deeper side to this beyond what is obvious. I’ll never forget one day during my brief stay in a Federal Half-Way House in Raleigh, NC. I had just finished my active sentence and was overjoyed to be able to take the next step forward - incarceration in a half-way house. It was a privilege and one that I was not about to screw up.

People came and went so you never got close to anyone. Some used the experience as a building block to future success and others acted as if they were victims - that somehow society owed them something. Their time was another step back into prison - at least it seemed so based on their actions.

But I’ll never forget this one guy who slept above me in the bunks we shared. He was three days away from total freedom. He elected to stay in prison so when he did get out he would not have to serve any probation time. I must admit I thought to myself, “What a dummy!” But to each his own. Some seemed to want to get out quickly and get on with life…and others - well they had a different perspective.

Anyway, this young man talked to me some (not much as he was a loner). But he talked enough for me to know that he was scared - scared of freedom. In prison he had shelter, clothing and food. On the outside (as he called it) he had to be responsible for those things for himself. Considering he’d been in prison since he was 18 and he was now going on 28, he didn’t know how to start making a life for himself.

I was so excited for him on the day of his release…I went to the half-way house manager to find out when he’d be free as I wanted to wish him well. What I was told shocked me.

“He’s back in,” they told me.

“What are you talking about. He’s to be released today.”

“Last night he held up a convenience store. They picked him up and he back in.” The folks at the half-way house stated this as if it was common place. “He’s back in!”

I was dumbfounded. After all this time with freedom just an open door away, why would he do that? Their next comment stopped me in my tacks.

“Yea…and guess what. It was armed robbery. Yep. He used his finger. He put his finger in his pocket and told the cashier that he would shoot her. He asked her for $20. She gave it to him. Then he gave it back and asked her to call the police. She did and he was arrested. Guess he just couldn’t figure out how to make it?”

As I think about Van DeLaughter and his letter…perhaps he, too, didn’t know how to make it. Perhaps prison was his way of living a safe, secure and structured life. Or, perhaps he was just dumb or dumber?

Texas Motivational Speaker - Chuck Gallagher signing off...